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Can the host see what we're planning?

No. Guest rooms (the “Psst planning” tab) are hidden from the host and the guest of honor — it’s enforced in the database, not just hidden on screen.

How do I start a private room?

Open an event you’re invited to, tap the “Psst planning” tab, then “Start planning” to spin one up — Gift Pool, Surprise, Logistics, and more.

How do I RSVP?

Open the invite link and tap Going, Maybe, or Can’t. You can add an account later to keep your RSVP and chats.

How do polls and decisions work?

Anyone in a room can start a poll. People vote, and the poll’s creator picks the winner — which gets pinned as the group’s decision.

How do cake / flowers / gift cards show up?

Run a poll in one of those categories and decide it — orderable options appear right in the chat.

Who’s the “guest of honor”?

If an event is in someone’s honor, mark them as the guest of honor when you create it — then the surprise stays hidden from them too.

Still stuck?

Reach out to Pauline and we'll help you out.